Hate to be the guy that forces my opinion on others, but I have to be that guy right now... It may not be illegal, but I guarantee you it is highly frowned upon, like counting cards...
There is absolutely NO, ZERO reason a 32 year old should be dating a 17 year old. Negative comments should be given under the following circumstances: 1) From another member when an answer is FACTUALLY wrong 2) From the asker if the advice turned out to be wrong Negative comments should NOT be given when: 1) there is a difference of opinion not of fact 2) when a response has been added to the thread disagreeing with the opinion Note: The operators of this site have agreed with and approved the guidelines so they are now official. If the parents of the 17 year old do not want their child dating a predator there are many other laws that can be used to keep him away and put him in jail if he does not.
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** and of course her parents are not that much older, so they may have a lot in common If you really are 17, you can legally consent.
It seems that having common interests and values would be a problem. To me , it would almost seem like taking part in raising your spouse. The ONLY motive a 32 year old could possibly have to date someone your age is for sex. In my mind, however, this isn't an opinion, it is fact.
It raises many questions about integrity and intentions.
I cannot imagine how else you could have met him, unless he is a friend of your parents, or if he is the parent of a kid you babysit, etc.
What he is, is a very strange, and potentially dangerous man.